What kind of women love English men.
Marry an Englishman: the pros and cons of such a marriage To begin with, the British are a generalized definition; your chosen one from England may actually turn out to be a Scotsman, an Irishman, a Welshman. Each of them will have its own characteristics and mentality, however, in many respects they are determined by similar features. So, most of the British can be described as restrained, rather arrogant, courteous, patient and gallant men. And the British are quite courageous and cold-blooded, incredibly charming and often embarrassing. A kind of cocktail of external contradictions, incredibly attractive to the female nature. Suffice it to recall the charming British celebrities: Colin Firth, Tom Hiddleston, David Beckham, Henry Cavill, Tom Hardy, David Gandhi, Charlie Hannem, Edward Westwick. This list can be continued for a very long time, gradually delving into the past. English history and literature are also replete with images of men of "foggy Albion", making not a single female heart tremble.
English features If you move away from the cliche and the first impression of meeting the British, a slightly different, but more realistic picture emerges. English restraint and arrogance. They are often described as emotionless or cold. In fact, the Englishman really will not emotionally admire you, show feelings in public. But be sure - his gestures in relation to the lady of the heart will always be beautiful and significant. The candy-bouquet period is not full of romance, after the official registration of the relationship you can very well get a very gentle, attentive and caring man, who gives generous and, as a rule, expensive gifts to his chosen one. Just natural English practicality does not allow them to invest in a woman with whom they do not yet see the future. Excellent upbringing, manners and courtesy, manifest themselves in all English differently. And, of course, the degree of manifestation depends on the social layer of the Briton. However, in addition to good manners, there are bad, or rather, extravagant habits. Almost all Englishmen are grouchy to one degree or another and have some oddities.
For example, they are picky about food or drinks, strictly adhere to strange rituals, such as pajamas only in a blue cage or chairs in the right corner of the room. Be prepared for the fact that this is not a Russian man who does not care where he throws his socks in the evening. The same order will be required from you.
Laconicism. The British, and not only men, are very stingy in conversations with strangers and do not really like the traditional "intimate conversations about life" for us with its hardships and tribulations. Believe me, they will not like listening to women's complaints about a problem. But they can spend hours talking with you about everything in the world over a cup of tea or arguing hoarsely about sports preferences.
Period ukhazhivaniy: zony vnimaniya Resheniye o zhenit'be anglichane prinimayut ochen' tyazhelo. Period ukhazhivaniy mozhet rastyanut'sya na dolgoye vremya, dazhe na gody. I eto nuzhno uchityvat', yesli vy vser'yez reshili vyyti zamuzh za britantsa. Poetomu srazu izbav'tes' ot taktiki «srazit' napoval — i pod venets». Anglichanin zhenitsya ne ran'she, chem sam primet takoye resheniye, obdumanno i vzvesheno. Krome togo, na yego vybor bol'she povliyayete dazhe ne vy s proizvedennym na nego effektom, a blagosklonnost' k vam yego okruzheniya — sem'i, blizkikh druzey. Ikh mneniye dlya nego ochen' vazhno na etape vybora zheny i on, pover'te, budem s nimi sovetovat'sya. Poetomu ni v koyem sluchaye ne prenebregayte vozmozhnost'yu proizvesti samoye pozitivnoye vpechatleniye na vsekh bez isklyucheniya, dazhe samykh nepriyatnykh vam lyudey iz yego okruzheniya. I uzh tem boleye ne stoit kritikovat' yego druzey ili znakomykh. Posle zaklyucheniya braka vasha zhizn' budet izolirovannoy ot etikh lyudey i vam bol'she ne pridetsya s nimi zaigryvat'. Kak zhe pokorit' i zavoyevat' serdtse anglichanina, yesli vy tverdo reshili vyyti za nego zamuzh? Ne skupites' na komplimenty. Anglichane, kak i vse muzhchiny, ochen' lyubyat pokhvalu i dazhe lest', i dazhe otkrovennuyu. Bytuyet mneniye, chto ikh samootsenka nastol'ko zavyshena, chto k ney slozhno «probit'sya» dazhe pri pomoshchi samykh izoshchrennykh komplimentov. Angliyskiye muzhchiny konservativny i ne storonniki modnykh trendov, poetomu ne stremites' proyavlyat' userdiye v usovershenstvovanii yego stilya ili privychek ili povedeniya. Prinimayte yego takim, kakoy on yest' so vsemi prichudami. Dayte yemu ponyat', chto klassika i izyskannost' – eto vash stil', a sumasbrodstvo i besshabashnost' vam neznakomy (ni v odezhde, ni v dushevnykh poryvakh). Umerennost' i ukhozhennost', a ne oslepitel'naya krasota i effektnost' proizvedut vpechatleniye na britantsa. Ne stoit dumat', chto vy krasiveye ili stil'neye anglichanok. Prosto v Velikobritanii net kul'ta vneshney krasoty. Vneshnyaya i vnutrennyaya garmoniya, gladkost' i ukhozhennost' tela — vot glavnyye prioritety v ponyatii «krasota». Zabud'te pro krichashchiy makiyazh, yarkuyu bizhuteriyu i prochuyu bezvkusitsu, etim vy tol'ko spugnete budushchego supruga, no nikak ne pokorite.
Courtship Period: Attention Areas The decision to marry the British is very difficult. The courtship period can stretch for a long time, even for years. And this must be taken into account if you seriously decide to marry a Briton. Therefore, immediately get rid of the tactics of "to defeat on the spot - and down the aisle." The Englishman does not get married before he makes such a decision, deliberately and carefully. In addition, his choice will be more influenced not even by you with the effect produced on him, but by the favor of you from his environment - family, close friends. Their opinion is very important for him at the stage of choosing a wife, and, believe me, we will consult with them. Therefore, in no case do not neglect the opportunity to make the most positive impression on all, without exception, even the most unpleasant people from your environment. And even more so, do not criticize his friends or acquaintances. After marriage, your life will be isolated from these people and you will no longer have to flirt with them. How to conquer and conquer the heart of an Englishman, if you are determined to marry him? Do not skimp on compliments. The British, like all men, are very fond of praise and even flattery, and even frank. There is an opinion that their self-esteem is so high that it is difficult to “break through” to it even with the help of the most sophisticated compliments. English men are conservative and not supporters of fashion trends, so do not strive to be diligent in improving his style or habits or behavior. Accept it for what it is with all quirks. Let him know that classics and sophistication are your style, and you are unfamiliar with extravagance and recklessness (neither in clothes, nor in emotional impulses). Moderation and grooming, and not dazzling beauty and showiness will impress the Briton. You should not think that you are more beautiful or more stylish than English women. There is simply no cult of external beauty in the UK. External and internal harmony, smoothness and well-groomed body - these are the main priorities in the concept of “beauty”. Forget about flashy makeup, bright jewelry and other bad taste, this will only frighten away your future spouse, but you won’t conquer in any way.