• Tez Clark

Ways To Ask A Guy Out.

Updated: May 22, 2020

Men love confident women and find them sexy, so as long as you have that going for you, you're in luck.

  1. Ask him out on a Group Date. ...

  2. Ask him for Coffee. ...

  3. Use the “I've Got an Extra Ticket” Trick. ...

  4. Leverage Your Mutual Interests. ...

  5. Use a Terrible Pickup Line. ...

  6. Buy him a Drink. ...

  7. Have a Friend Talk to him for You.

Once upon a time, only boys/men could ask out girls/women. But we're living in a time that doesn't require a woman to just sit around waiting for the man to ask her out anymore. If you want to ask a man out, then all you have to do is ask, most men love it when a woman is forward with them, really the only way he will probably say no is if he doesn't see you that way and likes you more as a friend or he doesn't have those feelings towards you and that could be from the first meet.

If you don't know each other but he keeps giving you a glance from across the room or in the supermarket wherever you may be, that's usually a good sign that he likes how you look, so if the feelings mutual give it a go and ask him. We all get knock backs but that shouldn't stop you asking, I remember a couple of times in the past when a woman has said that she really liked me but she was too scared to ask me and I was wounded because I really liked them as well. Its not always the man that will be confident and ask, we also need that push in the right direction sometimes.

Find the right place and time to ask him out.

Take the opportunity to ask him in a casual, low-pressure setting. It might be in the hallway, at the water fountain, on a sports field after practice, or wherever else you usually see him. Pick an isolated place, as well as a time when he is likely to be relaxed. Here are some things to keep in mind when you choose the right time and place:

Get a little privacy. You do not have to be completely alone, but you will both probably be more comfortable if you can do the actual asking in a semi-private space. People may not respond honestly when their friends are hanging around and they feel pressured, so some privacy can help you get a real answer.

Do not make a big deal about pouncing on the first available second you're alone with him. If you're both together in a group, lower your voice to half volume and say, "Hey, could I talk to you alone for a second?" and walk a few paces away.

Do not give off creepy vibes. Things like jumping out on him on the school run every morning, calling him then hanging up over and over, or constantly asking other people about him may come off as creepy--and something a stalker may do.

Give your crush some space. Do not follow him around in real life or on-line. A little recon is fine, but following his, every move gets into an unhealthy obsession.

Pick a time and place that makes sense. Asking him out after drama rehearsal may be perfect, a 1:30 a.m. text may not be unless you're both texting at this point and you feel like he likes you in that way.


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