• Tez Clark

The Text, After The First Date.

Updated: May 21, 2020

The Text after the first date, we probably find ourselves overthinking this one, its that moment you could either get a second date or that's it for you both.

What should you say? What does it mean? How should you respond? Are they interested in potentially going on a second date?

Listen, there are no hard-fast rules for texting after a first date, but you do want to be polite. It’s good to wait a few hours after the date has finished and give yourself and your date time to contemplate how it went, especially since it was your first time meeting.

Texting later in the evening or the next morning to thank them for meeting you and let them know that you enjoyed the date is not only polite but also a way of getting the conversation going to test the waters and see if they felt the same, This way you can always mention a second date.

Personally I would always try to make your date feel as at ease as you can either way, so if they don't want a second date just create an ok situation for you both, Don't make them feel awkward for not wanting a second date, we all have our own preferences and that's ok.


  • Thanks for a really great time. I had fun tonight.

  • I had a really nice time with you last night. Would you like to do it again sometime?

  • Had fun tonight! Will you text me when you get home so I know you made it safely?

  • Last night was super fun. I really enjoyed meeting you, let me know what you think and if you'd be up for a second date?

  • Maybe ask for the second date to be doing something that might have come up during the conversation that he or she said they would like to do.

  • Make it clear you'd like to meet up again.

  • When you thank them after the date, let them know you're free again if they would like a second date.


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