Questions To Ask Your Date.
Updated: May 21, 2020
We all think about what to say when we go on a first or second date, we don't know the person and its sometimes hard to keep the conversation going and some good questions can lead onto a great conversation and good first impressions.
Sometimes we don't have to work that hard because you can both bounce off each other and have a great date. Other times you mind find you don't have a lot in common so you need to ask questions and find out a little more about a person, try to make it funny & take breaks from questions as you don't want it to be like an interview or an interrogation.
So let's start maybe with something easy like what's your favourite colour or food?
What type of music are you into?
What movies are you into? These can also be covered via the chats you have before meeting so if you're talking a while before meeting then you will at least have some idea about the person & already figured out if you like those things or not!
Where are you originally from? Are you a sweet or savoury type of person? What values do you look for in a partner? What's your favourite season of the year and why? Do you believe in soulmates? Do you mind pets? If you had a superpower what would it be and why? Make some questions a little bit quirky and fun for you both and you can ask these to either sex and bat off each other with them.
Once you have the fun ones out way you can start to dig a little deeper and find out what they want for their future and their future partner.
If you could change one thing about your family what would it be?
Ask what they see in you and if they could see you both together?
Ask them to tell you 2 things they like about themselves and 1 thing they would like to work on? Usually, if they come back and say I'm perfect then you might have to ask different questions because someone else's perfect might not be your perfect.
Some points to think about, Not everything would make sense immediately, you might need to wait a while.
Be selective to who you give your heart to, make sure they are caring enough for you and their values hold up.
Be together for the right reasons and not because someone else has pushed you together or have kept telling you that you need someone, only you know when you're ready for someone.
Learn to ask and listen, don't try to be a mind reader, if it bothers you then ask!
You will have to make time for the relationship, is this possible for you?
Do they want what you want for the future or will you be fighting about that in 6 months time, find out what they want and what they are willing to compromise with, its no good if your hearts set on something that they would hate or vice versa.
Most of all try to have fun.
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