Meditations For Couples In Love
LOOK INSIDE. The truth is in you
Intimacy with one woman or one man is better than a lot of superficial relationships.
Love is not a seasonal flower. It takes years to grow. And as it grows, it begins to go beyond the limits of physiology, it begins to manifest the spiritual principle. A long-term relationship with the same person, in which you can get to know each other better, has extraordinary advantages.
The relationship between the two becomes a mirror. A woman starts looking into you and discovers her masculinity; a man looks into a woman and discovers his femininity.
And the more you get to know your woman-the other pole, the more whole, unified you can become.
When your inner man and your inner woman have disappeared, dissolved into each other, when they are no longer separated from each other and become one, you become an entity…
Thanks to many frivolous connections, you will remain on the surface... you will not grow. Ultimately, the only thing that matters is growth. Growth of integrity, individuality, growth of the center within you. And for this growth, it is necessary that you know another part of yourself.
Keep searching, getting to know each other, finding new ways to love each other, to be together. After all, every person is such an infinite, inexhaustible, bottomless mystery that you can never say, "I have known her" or " I have known him." The most you can say is, " I tried very hard, but the secret remains a secret." In fact, the more you learn, the more mysterious the other person becomes. And then love is a real search. Try to find the real being hidden in another person. Don't take people on the surface. Every human being is such a mystery that if you go deeper and deeper into it, you will see that it is infinite." "Without meditation, love is doomed to failure, it has no chance of success. Only with meditation does love begin to acquire new colors, new music, new songs, new dances. Because meditation gives you the insight to understand your opposite, and it is in this understanding that all conflict disappears. There is no other option but to meditate. Only meditation gives you the qualities of silence, awareness, patient listening, and the ability to put yourself in the other person's shoes." "If you love a man, meditation will be the best gift for him. If you love a woman, then the famous Kohinoor diamond is just nothing; meditation will be a much more valuable gift - it will make your life a pure joy. With meditation, the other person becomes your Paradise." "Meditation is a man; love is a woman. When meditation meets love, it is the meeting of a man with a woman. And in this meeting we create a transcendental person."
"Those who love become more and more silent. There is no need to speak, communication takes place even in silence. It is a unity of one kind-between you and what is outside; it is love. And there is another unity that arises within you; your inner man and your inner woman meet. This is meditation; then you begin to feel the unity within. When there are two such oneness-the oneness of love and the oneness of meditation-then there can be a third and highest oneness: Oneness with the Whole, with the Being, your oneness with God."
"A love affair with a man or woman is only a means to an end. The goal is to have a love affair with your inner man or woman. External communication - this is a great opportunity to learn how internal communication. The day your inner man and inner woman meet, you become enlightened. This is a day of great celebration not only for you, but for all of Existence."
"Love plus meditation-and all the treasures of existence are available to you."