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7 rules of monetary relations between a man and a woman

In fact, millions of couples quarrel, brawl, and break up over money. Moreover, at any stage of the relationship and with any level of prosperity. So it doesn't matter if you're married or just Dating, millionaires or hippies. Money is the litmus test of relationships. It shows the level of care, trust and responsibility between a man and a woman.


Who should pay? Do I need to be financially independent? These questions inevitably pop up like a giant iceberg in the middle of the sea. The problem of distributing monetary resources in a pair is as old as the world. Of course, we love each other. But money, too! We also do not want to be deceived and our feelings and expectations deceived. But, anyway, without giving, you can't build a harmonious relationship.

Man and woman: rules of monetary relations Money is not a hindrance to love?

In fact, millions of couples quarrel, brawl, and break up over money. Moreover, at any stage of the relationship and with any level of prosperity. So it doesn't matter if you're married or just Dating, millionaires or hippies. Money is the litmus test of relationships. It shows the level of care, trust and responsibility between a man and a woman. There's no getting away from it. Started a relationship — your financial worlds collided.

The correct role

If a man on the first date "chipped in" for coffee — it is stupid to believe that after marriage, he will fully provide for the family. Most likely, the wife will continue to contribute her half of the "mammoth" to the family pot. Will become a 50/50 woman, that is, an interchangeable husband. She will fix the faucet if he is on a business trip, and will chip in for a vacation. If you are tired of dragging everything out and do not feel tender and defenseless, then you initially misallocated the roles in the relationship. Including financial ones.

I'm embarrassed!

A favorite phrase of adherents of the "European mentality". Feeling like a Freeloader is the main fear of such women. Therefore, they play the role of a full-fledged partner, a colleague who smells of "honesty" for a mile. Men of course appreciate modesty, not commercialism. But when a woman does not know how to accept gifts, help, signs of attention — she ceases to be feminine, she does not want to protect, provide and please. And then I wonder why a man slaps me on the shoulder in a friendly way and doesn't see me as a woman.

You owe me

The reverse side of the coin. Women's " Give, give, give!» created a stereotype that women (especially beautiful) only need money. In a real healthy relationship, there is no consumer " demand!". There is an interchange — when a man invests and closes the needs of a woman, and she encourages his masculinity and makes him successful. In other words, a woman and a man are like creatures of the same ecosystem. Each allocates energy to support the life of the other.

Talk

Any normal man has financial goals. It can be your business, buying an apartment, a new car, anything! Logically, they require investment. Even if a man is well provided for, consider his aspirations. And a millionaire is not a bottomless barrel that will give out money at any "desire". Talk about goals seriously. Before marriage. Otherwise, the problems will become family problems. Hence the war for the purse.


7 rules of monetary relations 1. Male — earner

And he pays for everything. This is not a punishment, but a completely normal male area of responsibility. Some women go out of their way to Supplement the family budget on an equal basis. Then they wonder why the husband is more and more lying on the couch and does not seek anywhere. Because he knows that any financial hole will be patched by a woman. Over time, he will check the other half for other "secret opportunities". What if she could move the cabinets while he was fishing?

2. Learn to interchange

Don't think that a man has to do everything, and a woman is a consumer. She works no less, only in her own, female sphere of influence. Giving tenderness, love, beauty is not about SMS messages from a beauty salon "I love you, buy me new shoes!" A truly wise woman understands how important it is to develop. She's not a lapdog who doesn't know how to organize her day. She is the inspiration, the Keeper of the hearth, the lover in one person.

3. Forget " I myself!»

Don't play the role of soldier Jane, who "doesn't cry and doesn't want anything." Men want to be needed, they want to give gifts, they want to provide for their family.In order for men's potential to develop, a woman simply has to shift financial issues to men's shoulders. Her desires are like fuel for his engine.

4. To ask you need to be able

A man feels when a request hides falseness and greed. No ultimatums, no harsh tone. Start small and gradually increase your search queries. No matter what you asked for — a bouquet of flowers or a diamond-be equally grateful and happy. A decent man does not need to beg and stand in the "begging position". This is not about healthy gratitude.


5. Trust is a solid Foundation for relationships

How to jump from a high cliff and be sure that you will be caught at the bottom. It is in the firm belief that you will be supported, not judged,not stirred up too much. Then there will be no secrets — who gets how much and under which mattress the stash is hidden.

6. The woman does not give expensive gifts

It's simple. What matters is not the price tag on the Lexus, or even the Lexus itself. It is important to banal attention and emotions that the gift caused. Don't spend too much on a man to match his status or assert yourself. Many girls complain “ " my Husband provides for me, I wildly ask for money for a gift to him." You don't need to! Material expensive gifts are the privilege of men. It is contraindicated to look for more expensive, take out loans or borrow.

7. Don't focus on income

Yes, few people manage to build a nice Paradise in a hut. But to focus on money in a relationship is also stupid. Happiness is within us. Even if you go to the Maldives, you will carry a void inside. It should be equally good with a man in any situation. Then financial UPS and downs are not terrible. Remember, money relations between a man and a woman are laid from the first meeting. Look at your partner more closely, and do not rush into the pool with your head. Greedy — do not think that you will re-educate. And it's not about the level of wealth: it is better to share the last piece of bread than to pinch millions. Love is not measured in the amount of money, but in the ability to give.


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